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“One of my guys is struggling. What can I do?” More than most owners think, and less than a counselor can. You cannot treat anyone, and nobody expects you to. What you can do is notice, ask him straight out, stay with him, and get him to people who do this for a living. That is the whole job, and in a small shop the owner is often the one best placed to do it.

If someone is in danger right now, OSHA’s guidance for employers says to stay with the person and get help at once: contact emergency services, or call or text 988, or chat at 988lifeline.org. The rest of this article can wait.

Why this is a construction problem

The CDC’s report on suicide by industry and occupation for 2021 put the overall rate for working men at 32.0 per 100,000. In the construction industry it was 56.0 for men. By occupation, the construction and extraction group came to 65.6 for men, and some trades were higher still:

Suicide rates among working men per 100,000, 2021 (CDC, MMWR December 2023)
GroupRate
All working men32.0
Construction laborers91.0
Roofers79.9
Carpenters69.4
Electricians52.1
Pipelayers, plumbers, pipefitters and steamfitters49.4
Painters and paperhangers44.1

CPWR, the Center for Construction Research and Training, found that almost one in five suicides with a reported industry in 2021 (17.9%) were in construction, though construction workers were only 7.4% of the workforce. Its seventh Construction Chart Book (2025) says construction has “the second highest suicide rate of any industry.” And in February 2026 CPWR reported about 5,000 suicides among construction workers aged 16 to 64 in 2024, down from about 5,100 in 2023. For comparison, the Bureau of Labor Statistics counted 1,032 deaths from work injuries among construction and extraction workers in 2024. The two counts are made differently, but the gap is plain: on these numbers, the industry loses several times more workers to suicide than to fatal injuries on the job.

OSHA’s employer sheet says there is “no single cause for suicide.” For construction, OSHA points to “work-related stresses such as seasonal work, demanding schedules and workplace injuries.” The CDC report lists job stress, “including poor supervisory and colleague support, low job control, and job insecurity,” along with “work-related access to lethal means of suicide.” CPWR’s Chart Book adds the chain from a bad injury to pain medication to declining mental health. Several of those are things an owner touches every day.

The warning signs

The 988 Lifeline lists these, and says they matter most when the behavior is new, has increased, or seems tied to a painful event, loss or change:

  • Talking about wanting to die, or about feeling hopeless or having no reason to live.
  • Talking about feeling trapped or in unbearable pain, or about being a burden to others.
  • Looking for a way to kill themselves.
  • More alcohol or drugs.
  • Acting anxious or agitated, or behaving recklessly.
  • Sleeping too little or too much.
  • Withdrawing or isolating.
  • Rage, talk of revenge, or extreme mood swings.

OSHA’s employer sheet adds a few you would see at work: saying goodbye to people, giving away prized possessions, fatigue, loss of interest, and “relief or sudden improvement.” On a crew, these often show up sideways. Say a reliable framer starts showing up late, skips the lunch talk he used to run, takes chances on the roof he never used to take, and mentions that everyone would be better off without him. Any one of those could be a bad week. Together, they are your cue to ask.

The conversation

The #BeThe1To campaign, run with the 988 Lifeline, boils it down to five steps: ask, be there, help keep them safe, help them connect, and follow up. On the first step it is blunt: research shows that “asking at-risk individuals if they are suicidal does not increase suicides or suicidal thoughts.” You will not put the idea in his head.

Pick a private moment, away from the crew: the truck at the end of the day, a coffee before the job. Tell him what you have noticed, then ask the plain question. For example: “You haven’t been yourself the last few weeks. You said the other day everyone would be better off without you. Are you thinking about suicide?” The 988 Lifeline’s advice is to be direct and matter-of-fact, listen, accept what he says without judging it, and not act shocked.

  • Be there. Listen more than you talk. Do not argue him out of how he feels or promise everything will be fine.
  • Help keep him safe. #BeThe1To’s step is to find out whether he has a plan and the means, and to put time and distance between him and them.
  • Help him connect. Offer to sit with him while he calls or texts 988. If he will not, you can contact 988 yourself to find out what help is available near you.
  • Do not keep it secret. The Lifeline says plainly: “Don’t be sworn to secrecy. Seek support.”
  • Follow up. A text the next morning, a word on the job the next day. #BeThe1To makes it the fifth step, not an afterthought.

What 988 is

The 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline takes calls and texts at 988 and chats at 988lifeline.org. Its site says conversations are “free and confidential,” it is available around the clock, and it is “for everyone,” including people worried about someone else, people dealing with alcohol or drug use, and people who just need someone to talk to. Its FAQ says callers can press 2 to reach a Spanish-speaking counselor, and text and chat are offered in Spanish too. OSHA’s sheet adds that veterans can call 988 and press 1.

Put the number where the crew will see it: the truck visor, the shop wall, the bottom of the weekly schedule. If you have an employee assistance program, OSHA suggests reminding people it exists and that it is confidential, and helping them understand what your health plan covers for mental health and substance use.

What you can change before anyone is in crisis

OSHA’s employer sheet is practical, and most of it costs nothing:

  • Say it out loud. Tell the crew that mental health is part of safety in your company and that your door is open, without fear of losing the job for raising it.
  • Build in some give. OSHA suggests reviewing how work is managed “to determine if additional flexibilities are needed.” In a small shop that can mean letting someone leave early for an appointment without a fight.
  • Look at your stress points. Pace, schedules and customer pressure are on OSHA’s list. CPWR’s February 2026 newsletter adds reducing the injuries that cause pain, paid leave, anti-bullying policies and a real safety culture.
  • Train whoever runs the crew. OSHA says supervisors should learn to recognize the signs and start the conversation, and that being dismissive can be harmful.
  • Plan for a loss. OSHA lists supporting employees affected by a suicide. CIASP publishes a toolbox talk on supporting crews after one.

A ten-minute toolbox talk

You do not have to write one. The Construction Industry Alliance for Suicide Prevention publishes short toolbox talks built for the job site that you can download, including one on 988, with some of its talks and jobsite posters in Spanish. CPWR publishes a toolbox talk, “Suicide Prevention in Construction,” in English and Spanish, built around a coworker who notices a change and checks in. If you would rather say it in your own words, a talk that covers the ground looks like this:

  1. Why we are talking about it: in 2024, about 5,000 construction workers died by suicide, against 1,032 construction and extraction workers killed by injuries on the job.
  2. The signs from the list above, in plain words, with the point that a change in someone matters most.
  3. What to do: ask the direct question, stay with them, and do not keep it secret.
  4. The number: 988, by call, text or chat, free and confidential, with a Spanish line and a veterans’ line.
  5. Your promise: anyone can come to you or the foreman, and nobody loses his job for asking for help.

Run it in the language the crew understands; Safety Training Your Crew Understands covers why that matters for every safety talk. Then hand out the number on a card.

One last thing. If you are the one who is struggling, with the bills, the weather, the work drying up, everything on your shoulders, 988 is for you too. Owners carry a lot of it alone.

General information, not legal or tax advice. Rules change and vary by state; check with the agency named above or a professional for your situation.

Sources

  1. Suicide Rates by Industry and Occupation, National Vital Statistics System, United States, 2021 (MMWR, December 15, 2023), Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (accessed October 22, 2026)
  2. Key Findings from Research: Suicides among construction workers (2024), CPWR, The Center for Construction Research and Training (accessed October 22, 2026)
  3. REASON newsletter, Issue 7, February 2026, NABTU and CPWR, The Center for Construction Research and Training (accessed October 22, 2026)
  4. The Construction Chart Book, Seventh Edition (2025), CPWR, The Center for Construction Research and Training (accessed October 22, 2026)
  5. Census of Fatal Occupational Injuries Summary, 2024, U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (accessed October 22, 2026)
  6. Preventing Suicides in Construction, Occupational Safety and Health Administration (accessed October 22, 2026)
  7. Role of Employers in Preventing Suicides (OSHA 4369, 2023), Occupational Safety and Health Administration (accessed October 22, 2026)
  8. 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (accessed October 22, 2026)
  9. Warning Signs of Suicide, 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (accessed October 22, 2026)
  10. Help Someone Else, 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (accessed October 22, 2026)
  11. Frequently Asked Questions, 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (accessed October 22, 2026)
  12. #BeThe1To: The 5 Steps and the Evidence Behind Them, #BeThe1To (Vibrant Emotional Health and the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) (accessed October 22, 2026)
  13. Construction Industry Alliance for Suicide Prevention, Construction Industry Alliance for Suicide Prevention (CIASP) (accessed October 22, 2026)
  14. Toolbox Talks, Construction Industry Alliance for Suicide Prevention (CIASP) (accessed October 22, 2026)

Where this comes from

Written by the team at Tailgate Office, LLC. Every figure comes from the sources listed above, as of the day each was accessed; prices and rules change without warning. Nothing here is legal, tax or financial advice.

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